<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468</id><updated>2012-02-16T13:33:38.926+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Where's Wilda?</title><subtitle type='html'>Travel with a social conscience!</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>26</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-7047248999934636208</id><published>2009-07-09T11:55:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-07-09T11:55:33.954+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Goodbye Vietnam, Forever</title><content type='html'>As I sit in a coffee shop waiting for my flight out of here, I can’t help but feel relieved. Vietnam has been a trying month as the country is a two way street of tourism. It is hard to escape the tourist trails as people march north from Saigon or south from Ha Noi like ants. You hardly ever get what you paid for and most locals who work in tourism are rude and angry, ripping you off any chance they get and shouting at you if you change your mind and don’t buy their product. Some would quote you ridiculous prices (I mean really, you wouldn’t even pay that in Saudi Arabia) and refuse to bargain, the next stupid tourist will dish out the money. A friend and I were furiously kicked out of a store when we offered a cheaper, more reasonable price. Some are just plain mean and would rather not sell you something or take you where you need to go unless you pay twice as much the local fare. I’ve been yelled at by tour guides and people on the street who’ve bumped into me and have heard horror stories from other travelers who make my complaints seemed childish. On a nightly stroll in Pham Ngu Lao, where cheap accommodations beckon, I noticed a large number of Africans hanging around. I stop and asked two men what brought them to Saigon and got an ear full from one of them. He had never experienced such racism and discrimination, he fumed, and since landlords refused him housing, he had to rent rooms by the night, often time being kicked out without a moments notice. He had been robbed, scammed, mistreated at work, not allowed into restaurants, and stoned by small children who laughed and pointed. The other man was happier for he was seeing the country through the eyes of love with his Vietnamese girlfriend but nodded in agreement as his friend ranted. I have yet to experience racism here as most people find my dreadlocks curious and pick at my hair like monkeys looking for lice. But all in all, I must say, with the exception of the few very nice Vietnamese friends I’ve made, the people here are the unhappiest I’ve ever come across. And to find those few gems, I had to look in the rough, the most helpful being those who don’t speak English and don’t work in anything related to tourism or public transportation. So I don’t think I’ll be running back here anytime soon, unless I get amnesia. No wonder Vietnam has the lowest return rate of any country in Southeast Asia.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-7047248999934636208?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/7047248999934636208/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=7047248999934636208' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/7047248999934636208'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/7047248999934636208'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2009/07/goodbye-vietnam-forever.html' title='Goodbye Vietnam, Forever'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-8879398901275889612</id><published>2009-07-07T11:54:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-07-09T11:55:05.082+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Minorities</title><content type='html'>I have spent the last few days in Sapa, located in North Vietnam and famed for its rice fields and indigenous diversity. There are approximately 24 different ethnic minorities in this area, each with its own language, culture and traditions. The Kinh and Hmong are the most ubiquitous while groups such as the La Chi and Bo Y are disappearing fast. As you walk through downtown Sapa, there are numerous women and children dressed in traditional garments practically begging you to buy their crafts. On a four hour trek to Lao Chai and Ta Van villages, Hmong women follow tourist to pose for pictures for a fee. Some even follow you and ask for money for providing some basic information or just plain gracing you with their company. Once in the villages, one hardly sees anyone farming and the new school buildings are practically empty. Children tugged at you asking for money and some are aggressive and look unhappy. Although inevitable, tourism has done more harm than good. It has commercialized culture and shifted the focus from healthy agricultural communities to the selling of a people. Many traditions are dying off and native clothes are worn only in town when in the presence of tourists. The children are not sent to school where they can find alternatives to tourism and learn to be doctors or teachers thus contributing greater value to society. Instead young Hmong girls can be hired as the play mates of western children, acting as a sort of doll or pet. The first English words they learn are “Buy from me” and “Money! Money!” Sure there is dignity in selling ones craft but there are too many of them selling the same thing. It is impossible to walk ten feet without having someone hound you to buy something, anything. The interaction between westerners and minorities is merely a transaction. There is no mutual respect for culture when one is viewed as something exotic while the other is just a dollar sign. It breaks my heart to see girls as young as five out in the streets late at night walking the streets, selling, or men on the corner drinking and gambling. They seem desperate and unsatisfied. They have modernized for they have learned that money is most important. Oh if only we could go back and remember that family, community, respect is what matters most. They had so much more to teach us than what we could ever teach them but no one seems to realize this as we charge full force towards self destruction. Tourism is the new face of colonization and we are losing our cultures and ourselves as we strive to “develop.”&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-8879398901275889612?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/8879398901275889612/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=8879398901275889612' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8879398901275889612'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8879398901275889612'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2009/07/minorities.html' title='Minorities'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-3399094920188134860</id><published>2009-07-07T11:53:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-07-09T11:54:29.705+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Price Discrimination</title><content type='html'>Growing up in the Dominican Republic, I am familiar with the struggle to survive that many people face in developing countries. I was fortunate enough to immigrate with my family to the United States at the tender age of ten. The American dream however, was not all that is cracked up to be. I struggled to learn English amidst discrimination and ridicule. As I travel throughout Southeast Asia, I am forced to confront difficult questions. I am constantly discriminated against, not because I don’t speak English or the wrong color, but because I am a tourist and a person with money and power. At the market I am given inflated tourist prices and a different, more expensive menu when I eat in restaurants. I am made to pay more for the same services offered to Vietnamese and even public transport charges me twice as much for half a seat. It has been confusing and trying for me to go from a person who has been oppressed and therefore wholeheartedly believes in equality to someone of privilege. Why should I pay more for the same exact thing? Besides, the money is not going to the poorest in Vietnam, but to people who already have business and are therefore better of. I worked extremely hard to be able to afford this trip and it’s not my fault that Vietnam is a poor country. When did I suddenly become responsible for the U.S. devastation of Vietnamese society, culture and economy during the Vietnam War? I have my own gripes with the U.S. government to be held accountable for its actions. And unlike all those Vietnamese who respond “U.S. #1” when I tell them I’m American, because when I say Dominican Republic they give me a blank stare, the United States is not perfect but merely good at advertising. With it’s over a century old efficient marketing campaign, it has convinced others, especially those in developing nations, that money grows on trees and the streets are plated in gold. But the fact is, in the angry eyes of the Vietnamese who rip me off, I am a representative of the U.S. and I owe them. I am not a local, I do not speak Vietnamese and therefore I do not deserve the local price because I have not endured what they have. But how can I express to them, many with very limited English, that I too have had similar obstacles to my self determination and dignity? And although I’m relatively richer here, I know what it’s like to be poor. I’ve been poor and in the States, still am. So who’s responsible, accountable for both me and the Vietnamese getting less for our buck? How do we distribute resources and aid in an equitable manner so that the poorer aren’t getting poorer? The responsibility rests on the individual as well as at the state level and although I don’t like it, it’s a doggy eat doggy world and we are all just counting our dongs. I raise more questions than give answers because this is an issue that still muddles my mind and I want you to think, get confused and angry because this is the grueling process that sprouts answers and inspires change.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-3399094920188134860?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/3399094920188134860/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=3399094920188134860' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/3399094920188134860'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/3399094920188134860'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2009/07/price-discrimination.html' title='Price Discrimination'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-7002759152220039476</id><published>2009-06-20T10:38:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-07-09T11:53:32.736+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Thrustrobics</title><content type='html'>As a lone traveler, many will agree that nights are the most difficult part of backpacking. I personally detest eating dinner alone and worse yet, going home early with no one with whom to pillow talk. It is not hard to make friends with whom to hangout but once in while, I find myself wandering the streets, alone. In Southeast Asia, finding yourself alone after dinner is not as scary as it sounds. In large cities and small towns, there is plenty of green space for families to spend time outside after sunset. I find myself alone but amusingly entertained by all the activity going on in and around parks. There is a myriad of foods and shiny things to buy as well as plenty of night markets with anything from high heels to sea food to delightfully sweet sugar cane juice. Children are playing and laughing, men drinking and playing Chinese chess, elderly speed walking, couples doing the Cha-Cha and my personal favorite, thrustrobics. For those who don’t know, large numbers of people, mainly women, gather in park squares to loud techno pop and pelvic thrust like it’s the most satisfying sexual experience of their lives. In the center of the circle or in front of the crowd, usually a pretty good and very enthusiastic dancer instructs the crowd how to salsa, rumba, thrust or what have you. I sit and laugh as old, young, and hip loose men alike shake their butts in all directions, putting their hands on their hips, dipping and swirling, some on beat but most moving to their own tune. I enjoy watching the different expressions on their faces as some try vigorously to keep up with the music while others just own it, probably imaging themselves on a dance show or music video. After the song is over, there is a small pause for people to catch their breath, chat, and come back to reality. As new people join in, some leave, having given all they had to the audition of a life time, and some jog in place, ready to take on the next routine. I’ve yet to conquer my fear of public humiliation to join in the dancing and much rather watch the spectacle but I notice that there is a dance mania taking over Asia. It is common to see youth break dancing on the streets and playing the oh so ever popular video game where arrows instruct them how to move their feet. I’m happy to see people partaking in these nightly park activities. It not only fosters creativity and self-expression, but keeps them healthy and social. AMERICA, GET OUT AND DANCE!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-7002759152220039476?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/7002759152220039476/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=7002759152220039476' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/7002759152220039476'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/7002759152220039476'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2009/07/thrustrobics.html' title='Thrustrobics'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-8094717568810914928</id><published>2009-06-12T10:52:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-07-03T17:37:09.504+05:30</updated><title type='text'>GO BACK TO CAMBODIA!</title><content type='html'>After a short hiatus, I find myself back in Southeast Asia. One World brought me back to the east, this time to Cambodia, where I spent one week with the summer 2009 young leaders. After co-facilitating the leadership training, seeing some of the tourist sites, and partying with expats and break dancers in Phonm Penh, I decided to make my way to Ho Chi Minh, or Saigon as it’s commonly known. As we neared the Vietnamese border, the assistant bus driver (or the one in charge of the paper work as I would soon find out) started handing out immigration forms and asking for passport. After leafing through my passport several times, he demand to know where was my Vietnamese visa. As I shrugged my shoulders in response, his look grew worried and soon after he tried to kick me off the bus, perhaps concerned about harboring illegal immigrants. Well I stayed on, hoping I could bribe my way into Vietnam. The Cambodian border official refused to give me an exit stamp and after some pestering, allowed me to walk over to the Vietnamese side to state my case. Once in Vietnam, well almost, I spoke to more immigration officials with the help of a Canadian who spoke Vietnamese, about possibly allowing me to pay for my visa on the spot, hint hint. “No Cannot” was the popular response and I walked back to Cambodia in the midday sun, sweating bullets and quite angry with myself. Apparently and unlike most of Southeast Asia, you cannot get a visa on arrival in Vietnam. As I left Vietnam defeated, I was asked for my passport one last time. Rather than explain my embarrassing situation to someone who didn’t speak English, I handed it over and waited patiently for another rejection. Huffing and puffing, the official walked over to another official who after examining my passport, for the umpting time, yelled “NO VISA, GO BACK TO CAMBODIA!” Smiling I responded “I know, I know, I’m going.” As I neared the bus parking lot the smiled faded and my heart began to beat faster, where is the bus I wondered in heated panic. The Cambodian border official will know but as he reprimanded me “I told you go back but you not listen” tears began to weld in my eyes. Suddenly I recognized someone from the bus and ran to them only to have the assistant bus driver arrive in a motor bike with my backpack. Pfffffff, a sigh of relief. However, he had forgotten some stuff I left on my seat and back to the Vietnamese side I went, where the bus was now parked, for my remaining things. And after waiting hours for transport, I was finally squeezed into the back seat of a taxi to Phonm Penh. I told the driver to drop me off at the Vietnamese embassy and after minor paper work; I would be getting the precious visa the next day. The second attempt went much more smoothly but just as time consuming. After hours in line, I was unceremoniously in Vietnam. As I spent my first day in Ho Chi Minh marveling at the development and playing volley with Vietnamese youth at 23/9 park in the rain, I feel hopeful that Vietnam will be more welcoming than previously anticipated.&lt;span style=""&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-8094717568810914928?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/8094717568810914928/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=8094717568810914928' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8094717568810914928'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8094717568810914928'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2009/06/go-back-to-cambodia.html' title='GO BACK TO CAMBODIA!'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-1556340410900941954</id><published>2008-11-27T01:11:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-12T09:21:38.744+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Leaving with a Bang</title><content type='html'>After a few relaxing days in south Goa, I returned to Mumbai to prepare for my departure. But on the fateful day of my flight back to the states, the unthinkable happened. Bombs aflared in Colaba, Mumbai´s tourist heart as terrorists stormed the five star Taj Mahal hotel and other frequented tourist sites. Fortunately I was staying with a friend north of the city at the University of Mumbai and no where near the scene of the crimes. Unlike the madness happening further south, the campus was deserted as classes where canceled, commuters too scared to travel.  But panic still reigned in the Savitribhai Phule Ladies hostel as the residents watched the news unfold. It was hard to believe how much damage a handful of crazed fanatics could cause as bombs went off around Colaba and automatic weapons were discharged in Churchgate Station. Close to 200 people were killed during the three days of violence. Thankfully, unlike the September 11th 2001 attacks of which I was also a witness, the terrorists were not as efficient in their mission of destruction. But pain and suffereing they did cause and as the hours of terror dragged on, Mumbai watched with its heart in its mouth. I watched with disappointment, saddened by humanity´s potential for evil and our disposition towards hate. How much easier it is for us to cause harm to ourselves and others than commit an act of good. How acts of evil leave a longer lasting imprint, scarring mercilessly the face of our world. I still would like to think that there's a balance that leaves no bad deed unpunished. But as terrorism grows exponentially, we must think of new ways to combat hate and ignorance. To spread love and peace in places of war and hate.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-1556340410900941954?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/1556340410900941954/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=1556340410900941954' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/1556340410900941954'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/1556340410900941954'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/11/leaving-with-bang.html' title='Leaving with a Bang'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-8449724294879535292</id><published>2008-11-20T08:13:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-12T09:52:55.846+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Public Transportation</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHWNchaXxI/AAAAAAAAEG0/6BEFnYOkXmU/s1600-h/IMG_4919.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHWNchaXxI/AAAAAAAAEG0/6BEFnYOkXmU/s200/IMG_4919.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346289759148465938" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although sometimes onerous, riding in trains is the most efficient and economical way of getting around expansive India. Despite the unpleasant memories on public transport, (ahamm, read previous entry) there are numerous fun filled adventures chasing and finally catching up to old double decker buses. These giant tin cans take on multiple direction traffic with authority, stopping for no one, not even passengers who have to hop on as the bus is moving. On these carnival rides one is thrown any which way the pothole filled roads decide to toss you (for best action ride atop). On train rides that may last for days, you also become involuntarily familiar with the oh so pungent Indian body odor which smells of cumin and sweat. If on the bottom bunk, you may find curious locals sitting on your sleeper upon waking. Th&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHV7IXlMeI/AAAAAAAAEGs/PmwTQZvwWMk/s1600-h/P8030139.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHV7IXlMeI/AAAAAAAAEGs/PmwTQZvwWMk/s200/P8030139.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346289444500877794" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;ey sit excessively close and ask extremely personal questions. But if you have the nerve to answer and ask, you´ll receive honest and insightful information about Indian culture and customs. Why else travel if not to get intimate with the country and its people? And sometimes their belongings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On one particular eventful train ride from Trivandrum to Gokarna, I accidently grabbed my neighbor´s shoe. Groggy and unable to wake up for the 4am stop, I snoozed the alarm. Dazed and confused I woke up as the train was slowing and panicked. I grabbed my belongings and fumbled in the dark for shoes, any shoe. I managed to jump off as the train was pulling away with a slightly tighter left sandal. Once at the darkened and deserted Canacona Station, I worried about getting to my desired beach destination. The one employee informed me that there would be no trains coming in any direction for quite some time and there seem to be no public transportation at that hour. After what seemed like an eternity a backpacker arrived in a rickshaw. I asked him about where we were and how to get to town. He enjoyed his stay in Palolem beach, Goa but apprehensive, I planned to sleep for a few hours and go back to Gokarna. Goan beaches are over packed with drugged up zombies, thought I. But as the sun rose and illuminated the white sand with palms as far as the eye could see, I felt destined to stay. I found a cheap room and spent a relaxing three days lying on the sand, eating fresh fish, doing yoga, getting massages and meeting interesting people. Now there´s a lesson in going with the flow.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-8449724294879535292?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/8449724294879535292/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=8449724294879535292' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8449724294879535292'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8449724294879535292'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2009/04/public-transportation_01.html' title='Public Transportation'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHWNchaXxI/AAAAAAAAEG0/6BEFnYOkXmU/s72-c/IMG_4919.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-8327660042401550339</id><published>2008-11-13T04:44:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-04-15T01:10:43.039+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Public Masturbation</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Sexual perverts run amuck on the streets and trains of India. While taking a digesting stroll after dinner on Mumbai’s University campus, my friend Adey and I noticed a suspicious man, previously hanging around couples, behind us on the darkened path. Disturbed by the lingering presence now steadily following us, we decided to cut our walk short. Joking about the abundant number of weirdoes in Mumbai, we grabbed some precautionary rocks and strolled confidently back to the dorm. Although it did cross my mind and public perverts had masturbated in front of my friends before, I was unprepared by what we found underneath a street lamp. Alight as if on stage, I stood frozen stiff by a grotesque performance. With newspaper in hand and fallace in the other, the seemingly reputable man wearing a pink shirt and khakis took pleasure in jerking off in front of my friend and me. I stared in shock as Adey attacked him with rocks and insults while he cowered and ran into an overgrown field. As incredible and unlikely as this incident might have been, it was not the first or last sexual offence against travelers in the subcontinent. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;As I prepared to depart south on my own, I grew anxious over attacks on tourists, in particular the brutal rape and murder of a young girl only months earlier in Goa, where I was headed. Violence against women all over the world is more common than one would like to admit, even in “developed” countries such as the U.S., where a woman is raped every four minutes. Despite never being in any physical harm, my encounter with public masturbators on trains and buses would be numerous. Heart broken and at a lost for words, I tried to comfort a fellow traveler and friend as she was molested while trying to board a public bus. On an overnight train I awoke in the middle of the night to find a man fondling a white woman as she slept. Drowsy but distrustful, I gave him a good slap on the ear and the cretin dared to stare at me incredulously. But in addition to the disbelief and utter disgust, rage did not creep into my heart until I approached a police officer in a station with a complain and the culprit. The protector and abider of law did nothing to help. He wouldn’t even acknowledge my presence and looked disinterestingly away as I gestured and explained how the man next to me followed me into the bathroom and waited until I came out to show me his penis. I didn’t expect an arrest but at the very least a few words of reproach. I had grown naïve over the few months spent out of the country for corrupt police are known to participate in crimes against women. One British girl in Indonesia shuddered as she recounted how a police officer had cupped her breast while she lifted her heavy backpack onto the upper sleeper of an overnight train. And although men all over the world have a hard time controlling their cocks, I’ve met women from New York to Paris who’ve witnessed such unsavory incidents; India surpasses most countries on indecent exposure towards foreign women. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Historically an extremely sexually expressive culture, Indian society became repressive and as baby girls and widows are murdered, the male to female ratio death drops discriminately in favor of the former. Globalized by the liberal western media, Bollywood movies increasingly push the envelope on sensuality. This is by no means an excuse, but the fact is that there are an increasing number of poor, sexually repressed, single Indian men who view westerners as lacking scrupulous erupting their frustrations in front of western women. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-8327660042401550339?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/8327660042401550339/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=8327660042401550339' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8327660042401550339'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8327660042401550339'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/12/public-masturbation.html' title='Public Masturbation'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-7752516787403323048</id><published>2008-10-27T14:46:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-04-15T01:07:16.582+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Moving Market</title><content type='html'>After spending a week in Yogyakarta, Java's cultural soul, I was &lt;span&gt;surprisingly looking forward to the&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;crazy zoo that is the subcontinent. Indonesia was shockingly mad, Yogya however, is laid back as far as city go. I spent my days riding around on AC public buses, making day trips to the sights in and around the city, and watching movies at a nearby restaurant. But after the shadow puppets and overpriced Borobudur Temple, I was on a 6 hour train to Jakarta. Once inside business class, I was glad to get my own comfortable enough seat. This class, however, was not equip to pamper businessmen with lap top computers, as the name suggests, but to provide them with a venue for making money. As we passed distant hills, flooded rice paddies and dry cornfields on the outside, vendors of all types of products cornered the passangers on the inside. Drunk from the midday heat, I purchased my lunch from the head of a fullfigured woman selling rice and chicken wrapped in banana leaf out of a wicker basket. After lunch, you could also purchase all kinds of snacks, sweets, fruits, popsicles, hot and cold beverages. Once stuffed, I had the option of purchasing widgets for entertainment: books (comic and religious), newspapers, wooden trains, natural healing oils, fake Dolce and Gabbana bags, shoes, cigarates...For those unable to amuse themselves, a variety of wierdos could do it for you by banging on anything wooden or metal that would make a noise, including the ever popular street instrument of a stick with flattened bottle caps nailed to one of the ends. Making noise is the key phrase here for anyone attempting to sing would skreech like a dying animal, coaxing you to pay money in order to shut them up. Badly made-up transvestites, children, and beggars would stand next to your seat, &lt;span&gt;motionless, until&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;you took out some rupiahs. People selling various items would throw their products on your lap and disappear before you could protest hoping that a few minutes of fondling would &lt;span&gt;induce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;you to buy it. The train had become not only a moving supermarket but also a moving clinic as some guy attempted to measure my blood pressure. Those baking in their own sweat, for the open window and the ceiling fan provided no relief, could purchase paper fans or freshening towels stolen from Garuda airlines. As we neared Jakarta, the largest city in Indonesia, the poor, &lt;span&gt;maimed&lt;/span&gt; and destitute started to make an appearance. Gangs of dirty children would sweep the floor on hands and knees with newspapers and men would spray air freshener, afterward demanding money. There were more helpless than the money in my wallet and it was impossible to ignore thier cries. Unable to sleep from the racket of talentless musians and the vendors' monotone shouting "Nasi!Nasi! Nasi Ayam!," "Minum!" I mainly stared, either at the circus inside the train or out the window, at the men in tow of heavy buffoloes skidding through muddy patches, at cows, goats, people washing, standing, working, children playing. India will be similar, with its sticky stiffling heat, with its dirty public toilets (i.e. the streets) desipating the smell of shit and urine everywhere, a moving blur of noise, smells and sounds confusing the senses.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-7752516787403323048?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/7752516787403323048/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=7752516787403323048' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/7752516787403323048'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/7752516787403323048'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/11/moving-market.html' title='Moving Market'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-5230493011490340846</id><published>2008-10-26T12:53:00.006+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-12T09:55:13.666+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Mo' Bromo</title><content type='html'>Taking a night bus dropped me off in Probolingo in the middle of the night. Urged by the lonely planet, I insisted that the  driver take me to the bus terminal in order to avoid being ripped off at one of the travel agencies. The bus terminal however, was deserted and after asking minibus drivers about the service to Cemero Lawang, the town overlooking Bromo volcano, I was told that the public bus service would not begin until 7 am, which would leave me waiting for another four hours. &lt;span&gt;Knowing that this might be a possibili&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;ty&lt;/span&gt;, I was ready to wait it out and sleep on the street or inside one of the minibuses until finally, someone who spoke English well offered a solution. Within minutes, I was  perched on a motorbike, on the way to one of the travel agencies. There, an agent would call me a "private" minibus that would drive me the hour to my destination. After waiting an hour, I was grateful to nap on the dusty minibus. To my surprise, I was awoken again and again not by the rising sun, but by the multiple stops made to pick up families, workers, and old women carrying vegetable baskets. This "private" minibus I paid four times the regular fare for, was over crowded with people sitting on benches in the isle and surprise surprise, a scam. But my patience impressed me as I &lt;span&gt;calmly&lt;/span&gt; moved and reshuffled let people in and out. I arrived exhausted and was mildly impressed by fuming Bromo and in the background, the imposing Semeru volcano, the largest Indonesia&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;looming&lt;/span&gt; at 3676 meters.  After a quick glance,  I buried myself under multiple blankets and took a short but refreshing nap.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHXUuG-nNI/AAAAAAAAEG8/2Pz5oYYp6Pk/s1600-h/IMG_4349.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHXUuG-nNI/AAAAAAAAEG8/2Pz5oYYp6Pk/s400/IMG_4349.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346290983640145106" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The town of Cemero Lawang was deserted, like a &lt;span&gt;wild wild west ghost town&lt;/span&gt;. I was surprised to later see the masses of tourist being herded like sheep for sunrise at the volcano viewing point. With ample time on my hands, I decided to walk to the volcano in the afternoon. It only took me one hour to descend and traverse the sandy volcanic valley leading up to moon crater Bromo. Once at the top, one must be as nimble as a goat to walk around the circumference of the volcano without falling into the steaming pit. Perhaps fortunately, I was discouraged from walking around the crater by the appearance of dark clouds. I was unable to escape in time and was drenched and muddy upon return. The next day I would be in one of the many jeeps filing up to the breathtaking but over&lt;span&gt;crowded&lt;/span&gt; panoramic view of three volcanoes being set afire by the rising sun.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-5230493011490340846?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/5230493011490340846/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=5230493011490340846' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/5230493011490340846'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/5230493011490340846'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/10/mo-bromo.html' title='Mo&apos; Bromo'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHXUuG-nNI/AAAAAAAAEG8/2Pz5oYYp6Pk/s72-c/IMG_4349.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-9126918515631444133</id><published>2008-10-16T13:05:00.009+05:30</published><updated>2008-10-25T23:58:58.233+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Road Kill</title><content type='html'>I thought I would leave bad luck behind in Gili Menu but it stubbornly followed me to Bali. Still with some minor pain from my fall, I incurred more pain while traveling by ferry to Padangbai. Determined to enjoy my holiday at any cost, I made my way to the popular Kuta Beach area. There I spent a couple of fun days enjoying the familiar ocean city life with its myriad of restaurants, trendy shops, vibrant night life, and shirtless hotties.  In search of culture and art, I made my way north to Ubud where my nagging wound continued to bleed. Determined to see some sights, I rented a motor bike to visit some temples and drive around the capital of Denpasar looking for the Citibank. Early on in the day trip, while lost and confused, I dropped the motorbike on my leg as I was turning, coincidently the already wounded leg. I must have been a pitiful sight as I laid on the street, tourist road kill. A group of men came over to lift the bike off me and I sat on the sidewalk, incredulous and embarrassed.  After a few minutes of nodding off the concerned locals, I continued on to the next temples for my leg was only bleeding and hurting a little more than usual.  After lunch I returned to my room to changed the dressing and continued on to Denpasar and Tanah Lot. On the way to the splashing but difficult to find sea Temple, I fortunately met and followed two band boys from Jakarta who were as lost as I but could at least understand the directions provided by the locals. We reached the overcrowded but must see tourist attraction in time for sunset and I was amused by the Indonesian tourists who were playfully running away from the ten foot waves as they crashed into the carved rock. Tired and with a sore leg, I rushed home to shower and rest.&lt;br /&gt;The next morning I awoke with throbbing pain and unable to walk. I would spend the next few days mostly laying in bed with my leg up, laboriously getting up to go to the bathroom. The helpful man that worked at the Guest House willingly fetched me something to eat as I displayed my bleeding and now swollen wound. My neighbors provided some light conversation and consoling words. Once I was well enough to stand, I looked forward to going to the post office and out to eat. I attended some very expressive Balinese dance performances and fell in love with the entrancing chanting of the Kecak performers. Despite my bad luck, I loved the gallery filled streets of Ubud and its ubiquitous shops and restaurants, some even selling organic products and wheat grass juice. Even the Balinese macaques that attacked and scratched me during my visit to the monkey forest put by a slight damper to my visit to the Indiana Jones like temple. But wishing to start anew and forget about my haunting accidents, I traveled from Ubud to the quiet tourist town of Lovina where I spent most of my time by the beach at the Warung Rasta chatting with other backpackers and drinking by the bond fire. On a morning trip to see the towns premiere tourist attraction, I was disturbed by the noisy boats filled with tourists that relentlessly chased the numerous dolphins who make Lovina beach their home. Unable to swim or dive due to my healing gash, I became bored quite easily of the quite beach town and boarded an overnight bus in search of the raved about Bromo volcano.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-9126918515631444133?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/9126918515631444133/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=9126918515631444133' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/9126918515631444133'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/9126918515631444133'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/10/road-kill.html' title='Road Kill'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-1458950178002844965</id><published>2008-10-16T12:14:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2008-10-16T13:04:40.184+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Trouble in Paradise</title><content type='html'>While exploring one of the many abandoned resorts of the Gili, the furniture and menus lingering like earthbound spirits, I absent-mindedly jumped on a wooden step only to have it give way beneath me.  Hitting my shin on a concrete wall, I nicked off a seizable piece of meat and panicked as I saw fat and tissue barely hanging on to my shin bone. The blood came rushing out and I instinctively applied pressure soiling red the white cloth I always carry to use as a head scarf while visiting mosques. Crying from the pain shooting up my leg, I hobbled to the neighboring hotel, where the nervous receptionist called a mule carriage, the only mode of transportation on Gili Menu. After what seemed like an eternity, I was rocked uncomfortably to the island clinic behind a moody mule. Although sparkling new, the clinic seemed to be not in use as dusk collected on the examination table. Generally weary of doctors and believing in the healing powers of traditional medicine, Indonesians, specially those outside the cities, tend not to frequent hospitals. I'm not even sure that the woman who came to clean my wound from a nearby home is a registered nurse. To the amusement of a crowd of curious kids that had gathered around me, I squirmed and screamed as the "nurse" poured antiseptics onto the gash on my leg. Only one child, with his emotive expressions of sympathy, aided in calming me by repeating "slowly, slowly" and making noises through clenched teeth. I spent that evening and the following day sulking and wandering not too far from my loft. I was only made a little cheerful by an invitation to break fast with the Muslim family who owned the Balenta restaurant and bar and my imminent departure from accursed &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Island.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-1458950178002844965?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/1458950178002844965/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=1458950178002844965' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/1458950178002844965'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/1458950178002844965'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/10/trouble-in-paradise.html' title='Trouble in Paradise'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-6452328148615532720</id><published>2008-10-14T10:50:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2008-10-16T12:14:23.128+05:30</updated><title type='text'>...and more ships</title><content type='html'>While violently wrapping my way around volcanic mountains, I discovered how similar the landscape of Flores, with its Banana and Cacao fields, is to my native land. Savoring passion, cashew, papaya, and guanabana fruit and seeing naked kids swimming in rivers brought back memories of a carefree childhood in the Dominican Republic. It is hard to believe, taking in the familiar sights, smells and flavors, that I am in a new faraway land. Along with the flora, the natural wonders of rushing waterfalls, steaming hot rivers, and the breathtaking beauty of the tricolor lakes of Kelimutu made for an exciting trip to the interior of Flores. Regrettably, one must be weary of alcoholics and the Moni Mafia in the small town at the base of the volcano cradling the three crater lakes. My trip was cut short by unpleasant &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;mafiosos &lt;/span&gt;trying to scam me into expensive incomplete day trips and the town's drunk continued stalking and harassing of other backpackers.  The aforementioned annoyances and rumors of theft ruined the otherwise relaxed and quite charm of tiny Moni.&lt;br /&gt;Once back in Labuan Bajo, I expectantly boarded a sailboat with eight strangers, all European, in order to spend three nights and four days westwardly crossing the Flores sea to Lombok. Despite mild sea sickness, the trip was surprisingly entertaining. On the itinerary: a visit to Komodo National Park, multiple island stopovers for snorkeling and trekking to a waterfall (our only fresh water shower of the trip, spoiled only by the swim back to the boat). Otherwise the daytime hours were spent reading, sunbathing, chatting, relaxing and at night, we were entertained by gazing at the stars,  the screeching of island bats, and the green plankton that made a light show of the ocean. Despite limited resources, the food was filling and deliciously prepared by the friendly Indonesian men who tended to our every need.  Upon arriving in the port of Labuan Lombok, I said goodbye to my shipmates and made my way to the Gili Islands on the west side of Lombok. In Gili Menu I would spend an undisturbed three days laying on beach bungalows watching the setting sun, reading and eating. Some light walking and snorkeling, as well as one dive in which I saw huge green turtles helped to pass the sunny days. I slept safely in an open air loft and enjoyed the pleasant company of the youths who ran the Balenta, our home, restaurant and bar. On the fourth day, however, my island paradise would become a nightmare as I came crashing down, literally.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-6452328148615532720?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/6452328148615532720/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=6452328148615532720' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/6452328148615532720'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/6452328148615532720'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/10/and-more-ships.html' title='...and more ships'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-6352154506391172664</id><published>2008-10-04T14:18:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-12T10:18:32.696+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Ships, ships...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHeC6LXovI/AAAAAAAAEHs/fMbwWVapAEQ/s1600-h/IMG_3706.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHeC6LXovI/AAAAAAAAEHs/fMbwWVapAEQ/s200/IMG_3706.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346298374223536882" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Once at the Pelni Port, I was unprepared for the madness that was awaiting me. People were congregated everywhere, perhaps waiting for or seeing off loved ones and in order to get to the ship, I had to elbow and kick my way through the crowd. Once in view of the spectacular ship, I was paralyzed by the sheer size and beauty of the vessel. I was pleasantly surprise to see that it was a legit ship that could easily stay afloat for the near 20 hour journey but as I scanned the facade, old fears returned. The ship was &lt;span&gt;dreadfully &lt;/span&gt;overcrowded and almost as prominent as the white paint, was the tanned skin of Indonesian seafarers. The number of people wanting passage seemed endless as a huge herd was fighting its way up the narrow ramp, not even allowing passengers off. Scared to tackle the ramp myself, I waited for direction from my equally stunned friend Jorge. Luckily for us, he had an expired police card from his old days as a volunteer so he flashed it at an officer and we climbed up a less crowded ramp. Once on, we stepped over people lining the floors of the hallways and sitting even on the steps. We climbed up, literally for there were no steps and I had to be hoisted up with the help of onlookers, to the top deck and sat waiting in awe. Slowly the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;touris &lt;/span&gt;banded together and six of us sat together, sharing travel stories, listening to Peter play the saxophone. We slept badly, huddled on the floor with the ship's engine buzzing through our bodies and were awakened by the ships loud horn which signaled our arrival in Labuan Bajo. Although on my feet, It felt as if I were in a dream, entering an archipelago of lush green islands being set ablaze by the rising sun. It was like a scene from Jurassic Park and later, once meeting the Komodo dragons of the island, one would see that the movie may not be too far from reality. The ancient monitor lizard can reach up to 3 meters, their saliva containing so much bacteria that it can kill an animal as large as a buffalo. Why the massive beasts with ferocious teeth and fiery tongues exist only in Rinca and Komodo island is a mystery but after seeing Flores' main attraction, I along with my newly made friends, headed for the island paradise of Seraya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHdDqRBEMI/AAAAAAAAEHk/25CtBKq8UqY/s1600-h/Panorama1.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 69px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHdDqRBEMI/AAAAAAAAEHk/25CtBKq8UqY/s400/Panorama1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346297287620497602" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once in Seraya Island, we spent our days laying on the white sandy beaches, snorkeling in the pristine blue waters, eating coconuts, and climbing the two large hills to get a panoramic view of Seraya and the surrounding islands. With only 15 bungalows, it was not hard to feel as if I was in a deserted island waiting to be rescued. After dinner with my island family, for there were only about 10 of us who ate dinner on one large table, I watched the infinite sky and saw many shooting stars and even a comet being disintegrated by the earth's atmosphere, its fiery tail fizzling out against a dark screen.  The sea was also set ablaze with many green plankton swimming up to shore at night and during the day, by the diversity of the marine life and the colorful corals. Leaving Seraya was one of the hardest thing I've had to do this trip and I have still not found a place that can matched its untouched beauty.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-6352154506391172664?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/6352154506391172664/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=6352154506391172664' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/6352154506391172664'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/6352154506391172664'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/10/ships-ships.html' title='Ships, ships...'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHeC6LXovI/AAAAAAAAEHs/fMbwWVapAEQ/s72-c/IMG_3706.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-275078007700263234</id><published>2008-09-24T19:51:00.005+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-12T10:32:07.757+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Hello Mister</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHgMIk6JcI/AAAAAAAAEH8/gfDaXocTZaM/s1600-h/IMG_3585.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHgMIk6JcI/AAAAAAAAEH8/gfDaXocTZaM/s200/IMG_3585.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346300731730830786" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Upon returning to Makassar from tribal adventures in Tana Toraja, I checked into the dodgiest hotel ever (probably a bit of an over statement but this place wasn't very nice at all). It was however, very late and I asked the driver to take me to the cheapest hotel suggested by the Lonely Planet. The next morning, I left the no name hotel to find a travel agent that would book me the fastest ship outta there and into Flores. The earliest Pelni ship south would leave in four days and after checking multiple agents, because you never know whose telling the truth in Indonesia, I paid the price. Unable to bear another night sleeping with the roaches, I went looking for another cheap but bearable hotel in which to spend the subsequent three nights. Once in Chinatown, I wandered into hotels checking the rooms and asking for prices and although it was the middle of the day, the hotels were poorly lit. In one such cave like place, I even remarked about the oddity that the rooms rates were by the hour. Upon exiting such establishment, I was dumbfounded to see that one of the "rooms" wasn't a room at all but more like a living room with red lights for entertaining guess. Concerned mainly with finding a cheap decent place to spend the night, I naively ignored the lack of integrity of the hotels I had just visited. After settling into The New Legend Guest House, I was reminded by a newly made Spanish friend of the rampant prostitution that is synonymous with many parts of Asia. As I passed "Karaoke" bars called &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Sexy Lady &lt;/span&gt;and the like, I could not help but feel wounded by one of the many ways in which women are exploited and oppressed. But from prostitution I walked into poverty when Jorge and I discovered hidden ally ways off the main port road. There we were greeted by the surprised but amused round faces of many women and children jubilantly screaming "Hello Mister." Although living in tin shacks, these people were extremely friendly and welcoming and despite living in poverty and neglect, they wanted nothing from us and were content with our just being there. It  was in the home of one such caring soul that I found myself but a few days later.&lt;br /&gt;As I walked the streets of Makassar I was stopped on the street by a petite Indonesian woman who wanted to introduce herself while her husband and child waited on their motor bike a few feet away. She wanted to share her culture, her home and family with me so she invited me to dine  with her parents. After meeting an interminable number of cousins, brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews (for Indonesian families are very big), I was offered a lot more delicious food than I could stomach. After pictur&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHgzHcpeBI/AAAAAAAAEIE/zVp8XgIXte8/s1600-h/IMG_3591.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHgzHcpeBI/AAAAAAAAEIE/zVp8XgIXte8/s200/IMG_3591.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346301401442646034" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;es with the family I was taken to a park where Dolphin and her hippie friends hangout making music, art and small talk. In this park, a bohemian rastaman lives in a tree house and many others play the drums, guitars, paint murals, take photographs. We sang Bob Marley songs, "Besame Mucho," and "Para Bailar La Bamba" (two Indonesian favorites). In Dolphin's humble home we ate runny egg noodle soup and stayed up late talking about life in America and Indo. In the morning, it was hard to say goodbye (literally as Dolphin continued to introduced me to friends) but the call of the sea is strong and I had to sail south.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-275078007700263234?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/275078007700263234/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=275078007700263234' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/275078007700263234'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/275078007700263234'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/09/hello-mister.html' title='Hello Mister'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHgMIk6JcI/AAAAAAAAEH8/gfDaXocTZaM/s72-c/IMG_3585.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-2450408542124124891</id><published>2008-09-01T10:06:00.005+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-12T10:41:49.708+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Sticky Rice</title><content type='html'>Cost effectiveness has brought me to Makassar, Sulawesi where flights from Kuala Lumpur are cheaper than the nearby capital of Jakarta. After arriving in the new airport, I got my first true lucky break. A private taxi, empty after having dropped off some tourists, was to take me into the interior to Rantepao for only $2 more than the over night bus. This saved me the hassle of getting from the airport to the bus terminal on to a long grueling ride up winding roads and then off to find my hotel. I arrived at Hotel Pison before dawn and after ringing the bell for ten minutes, a sleepy doorman showed me to my room. I was in Rantepao to explore the Tana Toraja region and its people. In the villages of Toraja, death becomes celebration as funerals may take up to a week. The Toraja people believe that if not buried with the proper ado, the spirits of their family members will haunt them and bring bad luck.  After someone's death, the body remains in the family house from months to years until enough funds are collected to have elaborate funeral processions, bull fights, and animal sacrifices. Upon arriving at the funerary compound in the village of Talung Lipu, I entered the main gate to see a small muddy courtyard, already soiled with blood, surrounded by small houses, the main gate and the main house at the opposite long ends. I watched a truck bring in an ornate coffin and dozens of men lift it onto bamboo trunks to be pushed up two stories onto a boat shaped vestibule, where it would preside over the rituals.  A line of shouting dancers would makes it way around, bringing with them buffaloes, a deer and squealing pigs. The family members, all dressed in black, were to follow and accompanied by the sound of bamboo hitting a wooden boat, they brought offerings to the deceased. While talking to other tourists about the peculiar celebrations, I was caught off guard by the sacrifice of a large buffalo. Too astonish to bring out my camera in time, I saw a youth lead the unsuspecting buffalo to the muddy courtyard and cut its throat with a hooked blade. Blood splashed everywhere and the buffalo jumped wildly a few times before collapsing in defeat, trembling in despair, the life fled from its eyes as it calmly laid to rest. A group then proceeded to skin it in front of the crowd to the incessant screaming of pigs who no doubt would be next. In Torajan culture, Buffaloes, specially albino buffaloes, are believe to be sacred and a symbol of wealth that must accompany the deceased to the afterlife.  After the excitement of the sacrifice, things seemed to lagged and so I decided to return to my hotel and rest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHi1_IgKvI/AAAAAAAAEIM/pZ5IL7qse9s/s1600-h/IMG_3356.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHi1_IgKvI/AAAAAAAAEIM/pZ5IL7qse9s/s320/IMG_3356.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346303649773529842" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The following day I rented a motor bike in order to explore the sites of interests around the area. After the  elaborate ceremonies, the bodies are buried in caves or on the faces of cliffs in places such as Londa, Lemo or Ke'te Kesu; wooden effigies of the dead marking the graves. Babies are buried in trees for life having escaped them too prematurely, they will continue to grow in death with the trees of Kambira. While driving to these sites, I was taken aback by the Torajan country side. Time seemed to stand still as I passed endless steps of green rice fields and distant mountains reaching up to meet the bluest sky. Locals collecting the season's harvest would stare as I drove by, sometimes smiling as their children waved hello. I stopped to chat in my limited Bahasa with a man herding his buffalo in one of the fields and watched a small child fly a kite. While walking back to my bike through the narrow paths between rice patches, I slipped and in went one foot. Struggling to get my foot out of the thick mud, I pulled too hard and in went the other foot on the other side. Thunderous laughing came from the boy who had stopped flying his kite to revel in my ridicule. I walked to the nearby stream feeding the rice to wash off my muddy shame. After waving goodbye one last time, I made my way through the fields back to my bike half laughing but careful not to repeat the embarrassing and messy episode.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-2450408542124124891?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/2450408542124124891/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=2450408542124124891' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/2450408542124124891'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/2450408542124124891'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/09/sticky-rice.html' title='Sticky Rice'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHi1_IgKvI/AAAAAAAAEIM/pZ5IL7qse9s/s72-c/IMG_3356.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-7357446973688869074</id><published>2008-08-26T14:41:00.006+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-12T10:01:15.070+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Insurmountable Sumatra</title><content type='html'>By boldly approaching mere strangers, I made my first friends in Medan, Indonesia's third largest city. Flustered after the trip from hell, see previous blog entry, I asked two girls eating at a &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;restaurant&lt;/span&gt; about cheap &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;accommodations&lt;/span&gt;. The Women were most &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;helpful&lt;/span&gt; and one of them even led me to a nearby guest house. After checking into the Blue Angel, I joined the new acquaintances for dinner and as sole female travelers, we shared stories and bonded over the difficulties of traveling alone. I also picked up some &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;insightful&lt;/span&gt; information about traveling in Sumatra, an island almost the size of France, as well as a traveling partner. Kate and I would make our way to Lake &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Toba&lt;/span&gt;, four hours south of Medan. The following day, a private seven person taxi took us on a wild, opposite lane changing ride as the road raged driver dared other cars and buses on a seemingly never ending game of chicken. Concerned for our safety and for the car sick woman sitting on the back seat, we asked numerous times for the driver to  slow down but to no avail. Dizzy but in awe, we scaled the winding road that snaked &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;around&lt;/span&gt; the volcano to see the still blue waters at its mouth. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;Danau&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Toba&lt;/span&gt;, is the largest lake in southeast Asia. At the Lake's center, floats &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;Samosir&lt;/span&gt; island, where the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;Batak&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; people welcome backpackers in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;Tuk&lt;/span&gt;-&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;Tuk&lt;/span&gt; with &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;their&lt;/span&gt; smiling round faces, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;tantalizing&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;Tuak&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, palm tree liquor, and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15"&gt;their&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16"&gt;extremity &lt;/span&gt;coordinating dances. Once at our desired destination, we spent a relaxed four days swimming in the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17"&gt;sulfuric&lt;/span&gt; water, breathless&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHZoc0ep8I/AAAAAAAAEHE/U9r9xM-y1fU/s1600-h/IMG_3081.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHZoc0ep8I/AAAAAAAAEHE/U9r9xM-y1fU/s320/IMG_3081.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346293521619789762" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; from the panoramic vistas. In &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_18"&gt;Tuk&lt;/span&gt;-&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_19"&gt;Tuk&lt;/span&gt;, I made more friend to share &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_20"&gt;Bintang&lt;/span&gt; beers with and even learned to drive a motor bike as the local children laughed at the staling engine. It was with a heavy heart that I parted ways not only with my new friends but with &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_21"&gt;enormous&lt;/span&gt; Lake &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_22"&gt;Toba&lt;/span&gt;. But on to new destinations I went where fury orange friends awaited me in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_23"&gt;Bukit&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_24"&gt;Lawang&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From curious orangutans to the relaxing shores of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_25"&gt;Pulau&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_26"&gt;Weh&lt;/span&gt;, a tiny island where hilly beach bungalows sigh for the return of the convivial tourists that were driven off by the 2004 &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_27"&gt;tsunami&lt;/span&gt; and political unrest, Sumatra has much to offer. But given its sheer size, my time limitations, and the many other exotic corners of Indonesia waiting to be explored by yours truly, I must say adieu to north Sumatra after only two weeks. So goodbye insurmountable Sumatra or perhaps &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_28"&gt;until&lt;/span&gt; next time.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-7357446973688869074?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/7357446973688869074/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=7357446973688869074' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/7357446973688869074'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/7357446973688869074'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/08/insurmountable-sumatra.html' title='Insurmountable Sumatra'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHZoc0ep8I/AAAAAAAAEHE/U9r9xM-y1fU/s72-c/IMG_3081.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-3683788924352379462</id><published>2008-08-23T14:06:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2008-08-23T17:09:28.200+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Travel Turmoil</title><content type='html'>On August 7th I boarded an Air Egypt flight out of Mumbai; destination Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. After arriving, I was comforted by the fact that I would be spending the night in a fancy Malaysian airport. As I searched for my Penang flight leaving the next morning, I was a bit disconcerted. No where on the screens did I see my flight number. After asking the information desk, I was told to go a different terminal 15 minutes away, where the budget airline AirAsia.com chartered their flights. Hot Malaysian air hitting my face, I stared out the taxi window excited. But oh was the terminal really meant for budget travel. The small terminal was packed with people sitting outside on the concrete or laying on metal benches. Why did they not sit inside the AC terminal where there were chairs?, I wondered. But the people claiming an outside spot, I later found out, were the smart experienced budget travelers. Once inside the terminal, I settled in a corner on the floor with my blanket and book. Immersed in my reading, I was startled by an airport official escorting people out. Apparently, the terminal closes for a few hours in the middle of the night, to prevent budget travelers like my self, from squatting in the airport. For the first time in my life, I felt close to being homeless. All the benches outside were taken and so I sat on the concrete, leaning against the wall, internalizing the absurdity of the situation, half laughing, half crying. After four hours I was allowed back into the airport to wait another 3 hours for my flight. Finally on the one hour flight, I thought the rest of my trip would go smoothly. But boy was I wrong. Once in Penang, no one seemed to have any idea about the ferry going to Belawan, near Medan, Indonesia. So I hopped on a public bus to the main port in hopes of finding a boat to my final destination. After an hour bus tour of Penang, an island off the west coast of Malaysia, I ran to the ferry ticket office only to find out that I had just missed the boat by half an hour. I was incredulous, pissed off, defeated. Was God testing my resolve? Why hadn’t I taken the direct flight to Medan?  Dazed and confused I walked the streets of, isn't it ironic? Little India, in search of accommodations/cheap flights. After visiting a few travels agency, I realized that flying to Medan would be the cheapest, quickest option so I was scheduled on an evening flight. Back at the bus stop I waited for nearly an hour only to see the bus turn the street before reaching my stop. Angry and with tears flooding my eyes, I ran a few blocks anticipating the bus route to barely catch it with loud banging on it as it pulled away. Once at the airport, I waited for another four hours, almost passing out from fatigue and no longer proud of my sense of adventure. Thinking shit could not hit the fan any worse, it splash me in the face with a flight delay. So after some deep breathing and stretching, I was on to my final destination: Indonesia. Once in the Medan airport, I smiled as I was taken to the money changer outside because the visa office machine would not take my wrinkled up dollars. Hit me with your worse Indonesia, I thought, for Malaysia had just spanked me in public. After the short inconvenience, I was on the streets of Medan asking other backpackers about cheap accommodations. Saved by the Blue Angel, for that was the name of the Guest House, I showered and finally slept.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-3683788924352379462?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/3683788924352379462/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=3683788924352379462' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/3683788924352379462'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/3683788924352379462'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/08/travel-turmoil.html' title='Travel Turmoil'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-1087987104649163159</id><published>2008-08-09T16:36:00.007+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-12T09:32:36.135+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Indian Inequalities</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHTMBt-zFI/AAAAAAAAEGU/D3MCgR2WFtg/s1600-h/DSC04392.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHTMBt-zFI/AAAAAAAAEGU/D3MCgR2WFtg/s320/DSC04392.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346286436238675026" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While visiting &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Bandra&lt;/span&gt; last week, I was disgusted by the extreme inequalities in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Mumbai&lt;/span&gt;, India. Its &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;incredible&lt;/span&gt; how someone can trample on, spit on, or ignore the extreme suffering of not only a another human being but a fellow country man. How can the filthy rich, oh and I mean filthy, sit in their Malabar Hill mansions, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Bollywood&lt;/span&gt; worthy &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Bandra&lt;/span&gt; condos, or &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;their&lt;/span&gt; exclusively owned gated communities of Hari Andani, without feeling the least bit &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;of&lt;/span&gt; remorse? In order to live with such disregard, one must &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;dehumanize&lt;/span&gt; or make the poor and helpless &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;invisible&lt;/span&gt;. But how can the haves not see entire families of four or more lining the sidewalks; sleeping huddle together with &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;their&lt;/span&gt; children in the middle so as to shelter them from the night breeze? The desperate cries of a destitute baby are so weaken by hunger that they do not reach them, sitting high up in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;their&lt;/span&gt; penthouses. They avoid walking a few blocks to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;their&lt;/span&gt; neighborhood train stations, for with personal drivers and AC cars with tinted windows, why would they take public transportation. But as they drive by Bandra Station, how can they ignore the crippled,  old and young alike who are starving, begging for &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;their&lt;/span&gt; next meal while rolling in agony in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;their&lt;/span&gt; own feces? But even when a few, skinny and dirty, wander to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;their&lt;/span&gt; doorsteps, escaping the eye of a snoozing security guard, they look blankly past them or &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15"&gt;shoo&lt;/span&gt; them off as you would a dog. The lack of apathy here scares me to death. How can someone look at human suffering in the face of a swollen bellied child &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16"&gt;while&lt;/span&gt; eating a sandwich and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17"&gt;sneer&lt;/span&gt;, moved by disgust rather than &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_18"&gt;compassion&lt;/span&gt;. These Indian inequalities are the most shocking in big cities such as &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_19"&gt;Mumbai&lt;/span&gt;, where millions of dollars apart, people co-exist within a few blocks radius; some sleeping on down pillows and comforters while others on the cold concrete. I will not deny that inequality exists all over the world, in our own countries, but not like this. I consider myself to be well traveled, over 20 countries in all, but never have I seen such pronounced &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_20"&gt;decadence&lt;/span&gt; and despair. I can not help but to feel alarmed. What kind of a world do we live in that allows over 1/4 of the population in India to live on less than $1 a day while rent in a &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_21"&gt;Bandra&lt;/span&gt; condo starts at $1000 per month? And we participate in this &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_22"&gt;debauchery&lt;/span&gt;, acquiring more and more material &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_23"&gt;possessions&lt;/span&gt;; our greed insatiable. I dare you to challenge this unjust social order because living in extremes &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_25"&gt;benefits&lt;/span&gt; no one and in the words of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_26"&gt;MLK&lt;/span&gt;, an injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-1087987104649163159?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/1087987104649163159/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=1087987104649163159' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/1087987104649163159'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/1087987104649163159'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/08/indian-inequalities.html' title='Indian Inequalities'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SjHTMBt-zFI/AAAAAAAAEGU/D3MCgR2WFtg/s72-c/DSC04392.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-4422112379056629334</id><published>2008-07-26T17:54:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-07-26T17:55:55.804+05:30</updated><title type='text'>hello, goodbye</title><content type='html'>As I sit in a Colaba hotel in Mumbai, the honking of cars and other nuisances of city life screaming four stories below, I can’t help but think of my friends at the RDC with nostalgia. I never thought I would miss cows, cow shit, more cows, goats, buffalo, bullocks, no toilet, no electricity, no internet, mosquitoes, oh wait they’re still buzzing, oh lets not forget all the random people transfixed, staring while we carried on the minutiae of our daily lives, taking pictures with their cameras phones, holding one of my dreadlocks up with amazement and wondering where these strange folk had come from. These mild inconveniences, however, came coupled with a rural family that will be greatly missed. Despite the language barrier, we communicated in the language of love and compassion, of understanding for our fellow man. Worlds apart, we became friends, more than friends for they made sure we were fed and taken care of and we in turn, always greeted them with a jubilant “good morning” and tried to show our appreciation. As we said our goodbyes, Kaku, head woman in charge of the kitchen, warned me not to cry as her stern look gave way to watery eyes. Archana, head woman in charge of the kitchen too, cried with me as I hugged them multiple times. Captain and Gule, head men not in charge, hehehe, were a little emotional if not shocked by my sudden hug (oh screw it; I said to myself, I know it’s inappropriate but I’ll miss the hell out of them too). Oh and little Ashok with his incomprehensible amount of energy, for he is a small boy for his age, screaming “titi, breakfast.”&lt;br /&gt;Once in the car it was easier to let go, the steel box acting as a barrier between this rural world we were departing and mobility, detachment. Taking in my last glimpses of sugar cane fields, saried woman with heavy loads of wash, burning wood, water, and what have you, cows, cow shit, goats, buffalo, bullocks, I felt guilty that the pain in my chest had subsided considerably. These people had forever changed my life but how much more greatly had I changed theirs? I will continue on to bigger and greener pastures and they will remain in their post, perhaps wondering what happened to that crazy dreadlocked dancing fool. But perhaps I underestimate the impact they’ve had on my life. Perhaps the traffic below is stifling the cries of a melancholic heart.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-4422112379056629334?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/4422112379056629334/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=4422112379056629334' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/4422112379056629334'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/4422112379056629334'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/07/hello-goodbye.html' title='hello, goodbye'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-6080759986976451560</id><published>2008-07-06T18:24:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2008-07-26T18:00:26.037+05:30</updated><title type='text'>The Plight of Dalit Women</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://bp2.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SIsY1rOnYxI/AAAAAAAABA4/bJGBGlWoNc8/s1600-h/IMG_2843.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5227299102909752082" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SIsY1rOnYxI/AAAAAAAABA4/bJGBGlWoNc8/s320/IMG_2843.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Thrice discriminated, first they are victimized by class, followed closely by caste and most oppressively by gender; Dalit women faced an array of atrocities. Troubled by the daily difficulties that threaten their livelihoods, feeding their families, violence and rape to name a few, Dalit women overlook their emancipation. Given that gender and caste discrimination is in inherent in Indian society, ensuing from thousands of years of oppression, many women internalize their inferior position and accept it as a way of life. Even once raped, many lower caste women refused to come forward, only about 30% of cases are reported. The main reason for the silence is fear of losing one’s honor and disgracing the family name. Yet is it often in order to soil the family name that the women are raped. Upper caste men who fear their husbands or fathers wait till the men have left the home in order to attack. Many women are also sexually harassed by their employers. Those women who do come forward are often outcasted and further victimized by their communities. The justice system is also hesitant in believing that an upper caste man would pollute himself by raping a lower caste woman but cases of rape and sexual abuse are rampant. Three Dalit women are raped daily and coincidently, three village women that were ganged raped by the police, recently showed up at RDC to request Adv. Eknath Awad’s assistance in filing a case. But who can these women turn to if their own local justice bodies are committing atrocities against them? Who can they trust if their value is diminished as soon as they are born female? Their fathers, husbands, and sons discount their opinions and families abort or even murder baby girls. Why should the family honor rest solely on the chastity of women? These are only but a few questions that must muddle the mind of Dalit women and that I too struggle to comprehend. But in our struggle we must be made aware of the crucial role women play in uplifting entire communities, not only as bread winners, but by serving as role models and providing education to future generations.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-6080759986976451560?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/6080759986976451560/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=6080759986976451560' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/6080759986976451560'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/6080759986976451560'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/07/plight-of-dalit-women.html' title='The Plight of Dalit Women'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp2.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SIsY1rOnYxI/AAAAAAAABA4/bJGBGlWoNc8/s72-c/IMG_2843.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-6384333580752036863</id><published>2008-07-06T18:22:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2008-07-26T18:41:52.000+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Rural Visiting</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SIsWB-Hz6EI/AAAAAAAAA24/pq9D0CeLS2A/s1600-h/IMG_2689.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5227296015605033026" style="margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; float: left;" alt="" src="http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SIsWB-Hz6EI/AAAAAAAAA24/pq9D0CeLS2A/s320/IMG_2689.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;So we’ve been visiting the different districts in the Marathwada region of Maharashtra in order to better understand the plight of poor landless Dalits in one of the poorest region in &lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:country-region st="on"&gt;India&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;. Despite the fact that nearly 30% of the population in this region live on less than $0.40 a day, these people greeted us with tremendous warmth. The villagers greeted us with multiple gifts of flower necklaces, scarves and coconuts. They crowded our car wherever we went, sang convivial songs and offered tea and meals whenever possible. They seemed ecstatic that foreigners would take the time to visit their removed villages. We swayed and bumped our heads as we drove for hours on half finished or dirt roads that were full of pot holes and blocked by rocks and the ubiquitous buffalo. During one of our village visits, I was moved to tears by the numerous school children who ran breathlessly smiling and waving after our car in their blue uniforms. In spite of being sick with food poisoning, I was revived by my interactions with the village folk and with lifted spirits, forgot about the pain in my stomach. In an interview with the local media, I shouted &lt;i&gt;Jaibhim&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;zindebad&lt;/i&gt; in solidarity with Dr. B. R. Ambedkar and spoke of the social disease that is plaguing &lt;st1:country-region st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;India&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;. It is not permissible that the majority of the population be oppressed by the powerful few. Women and Dalits must not only be allowed but encouraged to thrive. They should not have to sleep on the dirt, barely sheltered by hay huts, constrained to the outskirts of villages, removed from water supplies and barred from community centers and shops. They should not have to worry that while tilling their land, they may be hacked to pieces or raped. But despite the constant harassment of the upper-caste and the police, Dalits endure with optimism. Their fighting spirit and kindness has refueled my passion and further inspired me to join in the struggle to end caste as well as gender discrimination in &lt;st1:country-region st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;India&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;.&lt;span style="font-size:0;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-6384333580752036863?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/6384333580752036863/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=6384333580752036863' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/6384333580752036863'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/6384333580752036863'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/07/rural-visiting.html' title='Rural Visiting'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SIsWB-Hz6EI/AAAAAAAAA24/pq9D0CeLS2A/s72-c/IMG_2689.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-8749488053301946386</id><published>2008-06-13T21:24:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2008-06-21T22:49:01.653+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Dalits Dancing</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://bp0.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SF031E1djQI/AAAAAAAAApQ/Rkjqu_SyPz0/s1600-h/dancing.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5214385328535473410" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://bp0.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SF031E1djQI/AAAAAAAAApQ/Rkjqu_SyPz0/s320/dancing.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Training week was extremely enlightening. Not only was the setting conducive to personal, as well as spiritual growth (we were nestled by the Sahayadri mountains near Pune) but also very informative. We discussed some hard facts and had numerous guess speakers discussing topics ranging from tribal communities in &lt;?xml:namespace prefix = st1 /&gt;&lt;st1:country-region st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;India&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt; to Indian prisons. Comparisons were made between minorities in the &lt;st1:country-region st="on"&gt;U.S.&lt;/st1:country-region&gt; and Dalits in &lt;st1:country-region st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;India&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt; as well as the Black Panther movement and the Dalit Panther Movement. Prior to arriving in &lt;st1:country-region st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;India&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;, one of my tasks was to compile a presentation on atrocities committed against the Dalit, mainly statistics and graphs, but it wasn’t until I met the so called “untouchables” that the numbers became faces. These individuals were astonishingly intelligent (many of them holding masters and PhDs) and provided endless stimulating conversations. Their fervor for fighting for what is rightly owed to them as members of the human community is inspiring. Ensuring the basic rights of Dalits is not a burden for them, but a duty. One they accept with pride and vigor. The Indian participants were also excited that foreigners had taken an interest in their plight. Many people outside the country are not aware of the pervasiveness of untouchability in &lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:country-region st="on"&gt;India&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt; and many upper-caste Indians, whether in the country or abroad act as if it is fictional.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Aside from conversations on Dalits and Women’s rights, we allotted time for cultural exchanges and FUN. We played charades and did the limbo and enjoyed various performances and DANCE parties. Indians are a vibrant and energetic people. This is evident through their dances and in the ways in which they express themselves; hands a-flaring, heads a-shaking, pitches rising. I look forward to learning more about Indian culture.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-8749488053301946386?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/8749488053301946386/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=8749488053301946386' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8749488053301946386'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8749488053301946386'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/06/dalits-dancing.html' title='Dalits Dancing'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp0.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SF031E1djQI/AAAAAAAAApQ/Rkjqu_SyPz0/s72-c/dancing.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-7564221282927514698</id><published>2008-06-07T19:39:00.005+05:30</published><updated>2008-06-21T22:51:50.373+05:30</updated><title type='text'>bird shit, slums, and the like</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://bp1.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SF04m1rD_1I/AAAAAAAAApY/9hg3-vm1KEU/s1600-h/ai.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5214386183458783058" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://bp1.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SF04m1rD_1I/AAAAAAAAApY/9hg3-vm1KEU/s320/ai.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Finally writing from the subcontinent after an eventful week. While on the flight, one of the young leaders from the group had a seizure. Unaware of any medical conditions, myself and the One World director feared for his life. Panic made me dizzy as I put my head between my legs in order to avoid fainting. The occasion also made me do something I rarely do: pray. As an increasing number of inquisitive Indians gathered around the isle, some claiming to be doctors, I prayed for his wellbeing and our safe landing. Thankfully, he came to after puking and his untroubled attitude reassured us that he would be ok, at least for the moment (we would later see a doctor as a precautionary measure). &lt;span style="font-size:0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;But the incident would not have any ominous consequences, as we have spent a wonderful week so far. After a warm welcome by our Indian hosts, we made our way through pulsing Mumbai. A myriad of memories came rushing back as my senses were inundated by the sore sights, sounds and smells of &lt;?xml:namespace prefix = st1 /&gt;&lt;st1:country-region st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;India&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;. The incessant honking left a ringing in my ears and the foul stench of latrines trounced the fainter smell of sweat and curry. Passing the great number of homeless sleeping on the concrete below a Virgin Mobile bill board and luxury cars passing rickshaws really highlighted the despair amidst development of this oversized city. Overwhelmed, we arrived at Summer Land Guest House in &lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;East Dadar&lt;/st1:place&gt; well after midnight and fell asleep to the loud buzzing of the AC.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;On the second day of my arrival, I got shitted on by a bird, an auspicious sign according to one of the young leaders. So with my lucky brand, I along with 7 of the 8 young leaders and the One World director, walked around to the bewildered stares of the locals. After breakfast, currency exchange, and some waiting and walking, we headed to the slums of Mumbai. Most of the people in these slumps are barefoot, hungry untouchables. Their skins toasted a dark almond brown by arduous work, smoke and sun. The undersized children with their hopeful eyes and dirty cheeks followed us around with smiling faces as we visited the homes of pottery makers. They spat back the few English words we had taught them and giggled confused by our responses. I am constantly amazed by the undying fervor of the human spirit. Despite all odds and atrocities, these people persist. I am truly looking forward to improving the lives of the Dalits and hope that I can make a change, albeit small. &lt;span style="font-size:0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;?xml:namespace prefix = o /&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-7564221282927514698?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/7564221282927514698/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=7564221282927514698' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/7564221282927514698'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/7564221282927514698'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/06/bird-shit-slums-and-like.html' title='bird shit, slums, and the like'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp1.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SF04m1rD_1I/AAAAAAAAApY/9hg3-vm1KEU/s72-c/ai.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-897905972163862140</id><published>2008-05-28T06:14:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2008-06-21T22:40:30.391+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Human Rights violations and the gravity of abuses against the Dalit</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;The Dalit are limited by their caste and suffer from an array of social injustices, discrimination, and poverty. Below is some general information on the Indian Caste system, as well as some statistics compiled by CRY (Child Relief and You).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;?xml:namespace prefix = u1 /&gt;&lt;u1:colorscheme colors="#003399,#ffffff,#000514,#e5e5ff,#0099cc,#a886e0,#ffcc00,#ffffcc"&gt;&lt;/u1:colorscheme&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 12pt"&gt;-The Caste system has existed for over 3,000 years in &lt;?xml:namespace prefix = st1 /&gt;&lt;st1:country-region st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;India&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;. Society is divided into four main hierarchical caste groups: Brahmins, Kshatriyas, Vaishyas, and Shudras. The ‘ati-shudras’ or Dalits, fall outside this hierarchy and are treated as untouchables. &lt;?xml:namespace prefix = o /&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Although the practice of untouchability was outlawed in the 1950 Indian Constitution, Dalit communities suffer from an array of injustices and atrocities. They are denied access to common property such as water and land and opportunities in education and employment. In a 2001 census, Dalits composed 16% of the total Indian population (160 million).&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 12pt"&gt;&lt;span style="COLOR: rgb(255,204,0)"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;-Public health workers refuse to visit Dalit homes, Dalits are prevented from entering police stations, children must sit separately while eating at schools, they are denied access to water for fear of contamination and the list goes on…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 12pt"&gt;&lt;span style="COLOR: rgb(255,204,0)"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;-One million Dalits are manual scavengers who clean public latrines and dispose of dead animals.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 12pt"&gt;&lt;span style="COLOR: rgb(255,204,0)"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;-80% of Dalits live in rural areas yet 86% of them are landless. Although illegal, 40 million people, most of them Dalits, are bonded workers.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 12pt"&gt;&lt;span style="COLOR: rgb(255,204,0)"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;-Nearly 90% of all poor Indians are Dalits and 95% of them are illiterate.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 12pt"&gt;&lt;span style="COLOR: rgb(255,204,0)"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;-3 Dalit women are raped every day. “Dalit woman gang-raped, paraded naked.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 12pt"&gt;&lt;span style="COLOR: rgb(255,204,0)"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;-11 Dalits are beaten every day. “Dalit boy beaten to death for plucking flowers.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 12pt"&gt;&lt;span style="COLOR: rgb(255,204,0)"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;-Every day 2 Dalits are murdered and 2 households are burnt. “7 Dalits burnt alive in caste clash.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;-Of the 68,160 complaints flied against the police in 2000 for crimes committed against Dalits, 62% were dismissed. “Police egged on mob to lynch Dalits.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please refer to the following article for more information:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2003/06/0602_030602_untouchables.html&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="O" shape="_x0000_s1026"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Garamond;font-size:14;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Garamond;font-size:14;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-897905972163862140?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/897905972163862140/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=897905972163862140' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/897905972163862140'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/897905972163862140'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/05/human-rights-violations-and-gravity-of.html' title='Human Rights violations and the gravity of abuses against the Dalit'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8756409292783102468.post-8744437297779273893</id><published>2008-05-25T06:35:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2008-07-26T18:33:57.589+05:30</updated><title type='text'>hello, hello</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Dear friends and random internet surfers, welcome to my travel blog. I hope to indulge and stimulate your senses as you live vicariously through my exhilarating experiences. As of June 1&lt;sup&gt;st&lt;/sup&gt; I will be world bound: first stop, Mumbai. While anxiously awaiting my departure, I’ve busied myself with menial but sometimes amusing tasks for over the last few weeks. But in a little over a week I will be landing into the largest city in &lt;st1:country-region&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;India&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt; with my One World Crew. We will be arriving in Mumbai late night, the best time to arrive in a multi-million Indian metropolis. At night, a slight breeze cracks the oppressive Indian heat, you actually see the pavement, and cows are not inopportunely obstructing traffic. This time around however, I will not be deceived by the seemingly tranquil Mumbai air. When morning breaks, I will be awakened by the screeching of the city. As a heard of do-goers, we will weave and wind through its millions of people, vehicles, and public animals as we make our way to the more calm city of Pune. There we will commence our three day training before starting our international service projects in Telgaon village, Beed district. I will be the Group Leader for One World India 2008 as I, along with eight very world conscious side kicks work to alleviate the social strain placed on the Dalit community, &lt;st1:country-region&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;India&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;’s scapegoat. Thanks to the One World Foundation, this very lucky group will be working with the Rural Development Centre (RDC) to empower the Dalit community so that they may battle the oppression of upper-caste people and the landlords in their villages. Please refer to the One World website for some intellectual nourishment:&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;The mission of the One World Foundation is to encourage young people from minority and indigenous communities to become actively engaged in the human rights and development arenas. &lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.theoneworldfoundation.org/"&gt;http://www.theoneworldfoundation.org/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;RDC: Inspired by the civil rights movement of the &lt;st1:country-region&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;United   States&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;, the Rural Development Centre (RDC) was established in 1985 by Mr. Eknath Awad, as a way to educate Dalit youth of their rights as members of the human community. Through education, we can mobilize the rural poor to fight for equality, as well as sensitize institutions who perceive them as subhuman.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8756409292783102468-8744437297779273893?l=whereswilda.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/feeds/8744437297779273893/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8756409292783102468&amp;postID=8744437297779273893' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8744437297779273893'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8756409292783102468/posts/default/8744437297779273893'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whereswilda.blogspot.com/2008/05/hello-hello.html' title='hello, hello'/><author><name>Wilda Perez</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05920701209813695329</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_AhYsDlHqRDY/SDyzrZO0jtI/AAAAAAAAAYI/0JxBpMtKlcU/S220/IMG_1579.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
